On consistent,
expectant child-training—quietness, no-whining zones, working with joy and
diligence from a young age, manners…
“Does this training seem hard on the child, impossible for
the mother? I don’t think it is. The earlier the parents begin to make the
laws of order and beauty and quietness comprehensible to their children, the
sooner they will acquire good, strong notions of what is so basic to real
godliness: self-denial. A Christian home
should be a place of peace, and there can be no peace where there is no
self-denial.
“Christian parents are seeking to fit their children for
their inheritance in Christ. A sense of
the presence of God in the home is instilled by the simple way He is spoken of…
“The task of parents is to show by love and by the way they
live that they belong to another Kingdom and another Master, and thus to turn
their children’s thoughts toward that Kingdom and that Master. The “raw” material with which they begin is
thoroughly selfish. They must gently lay
the yoke of respect and consideration for others on those little children, for
it is their earnest desire to make of them good and faithful servants…”
While we must not forget that all of this, from beginning to
end, is of grace and of the Holy Spirit, I’d forgotten how much I appreciated
the “older-woman” advice that Elisabeth Elliot offers in her writings, and how
significant it has been in our home. Her
book Keep A Quiet Heart is a
treasure, and the “daily thought” transcripts of her old radio programs are
found on Back to the Bible’s website under Bible Studies and Devotions. Priceless!
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