And I fear that I’m sometimes derailed by thinking that a particular suffering either has no observable merit, or that the benefit of it has been lost since I’ve brought some aspect of it on myself through some haste, omission, foolishness, or lack of love. But God knew we would thus, and still He moves inexorably onward in His own intentions and perfect plans.
A definition before continuing with the following excerpt:
Stupid: insensible; dullness of perception or understanding. (1828 Webster’s)
How strangely stupid is grief. It neither learns nor knows nor wishes
to learn or know. When the sorrowing sisters sat over against the door of God's
sepulchre, did they see the two thousand years that have passed triumphing
away? Did they see any thing but this: "Our Christ is gone!"
Your Christ and my Christ came from their loss; Myriad mourning hearts
have had resurrection in the midst of their grief; and yet the sorrowing watchers
looked at the seed-form of this result, and saw nothing. What they regarded as
the end of life was the very preparation for coronation; for Christ was silent
that He might live again in tenfold power.
They saw it not. They mourned, they wept, and went away, and came
again, driven by their hearts to the sepulchre. Still it was a sepulchre,
unprophetic, voiceless, lusterless.
So with us. Every man sits
over against the sepulchre in his garden, in the first instance, and says,
"This woe is irremediable. I see no benefit in it. I will take no comfort
in it." And yet, right in our deepest and worst mishaps, often, our Christ
is lying, waiting for resurrection.
Where our death seems to be, there our Saviour is. Where the end of
hope is, there is the brightest beginning of fruition. Where the darkness is
thickest, there the bright beaming light that never is set is about to emerge.
When the whole experience is consummated, then we find that a garden is not
disfigured by a sepulchre. Our joys are made better if there be sorrow in the
midst of them. And our sorrows are made bright by the joys that God has planted
around about them. The flowers may not be pleasing to us, they may not be such
as we are fond of plucking, but they are heart-flowers, love, hope, faith, joy,
peace--these are flowers which are planted around about every grave that is
sunk in the Christian heart.
“There
is nothing that befalls you but there is a hand of God in it…when a certain
passage of providence befalls me, that is one wheel, and it may be that if this
wheel were stopped, a thousand other things might come to be stopped by
this…when God has ordered a thing for the present to be thus and thus, how do
you know how many things depend upon this thing? God may have some work to do, twenty years
hence that depends on this passage of providence that falls out this day or
week…is God about to humble me? Is God
about to break my heart, and to bring my heart down to Him? Let me join with God in this work of His."